Moving into a nursing home is a big life transition. Whether it’s prompted by a need for more support, health care, or simply a desire for community, adjusting to the new environment can be both exciting and challenging. One of the most important aspects of settling in is building new friendships. Strong social connections can improve mood, reduce feelings of isolation, and even enhance physical health.
Here are some of the best ways for new residents to make friends in a nursing home:
1. Participate in Group Activities
Most nursing homes offer a variety of activities—from bingo and card games to crafts, music, or movie nights. These events are designed not just for entertainment, but also to bring residents together in a relaxed, social setting.
Tip: Attend regularly. Familiar faces become friendly faces over time.
2. Join a Club or Special Interest Group
Many facilities have groups based on hobbies like gardening, knitting, reading, or faith. Joining one is a great way to meet others who share your interests and to start conversations more naturally.
Tip: If there’s not a group for your favorite activity, ask staff about starting one.
3. Spend Time in Common Areas
Dining halls, lounges, and outdoor patios are often casual gathering spots. Simply being present in these spaces increases your chances of connecting with others.
Tip: Sit with someone new at meals and introduce yourself with a smile.
4. Take Advantage of Welcome Programs
Some nursing homes have “buddy systems” where a long-term resident is assigned to help welcome newcomers. These buddies can provide insight, introduce you to others, and help you feel more comfortable.
Tip: Ask the staff if your facility has such a program—and if not, suggest one.
5. Be Open and Approachable
Friendship often begins with a simple hello. A warm greeting, a compliment, or a shared comment on the weather or an activity can break the ice.
Tip: Try to learn and use people’s names—it’s a small gesture that can go a long way.
6. Volunteer or Help Others
If your health permits, offer to help with small tasks like setting up for an event or assisting someone who needs a hand. Acts of kindness not only build goodwill but also naturally lead to conversations and connections.
7. Involve Family and Staff
Ask family members or staff to introduce you to others. Staff often know which residents have shared interests and can help arrange introductions or suggest suitable activities.
Final Thoughts
Making new friends as a new resident in a nursing home takes time, but every friendly effort helps build connection. Be patient with yourself and others—some people warm up more slowly than others. With openness and regular participation, meaningful friendships can form and flourish, turning a new residence into a true home.
Remember: Everyone in the nursing home has a story, a past, and the potential for companionship. All it takes is the first step—and often, that starts with a simple hello.